Clare Staples: Jet Lag, Family And Friends

Last week, Paul, Alex and I went to The Grove to see Bruno. I wasn’t ecstatic about the movie, but that was because I was sandwiched between two guys who were laughing so hard it was difficult to hear the film.
Paul was laughing so hysterically, I was worried he would fall off his chair, or break something.
There’s nothing [...]

Cameron Diaz’s Green List

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For simple, creative [...]

Clare Staples: The 80/20 Rule

Paul McKenna swears by the 80/20 rule.
Invented by Wilfred Pareto, a 19th century economist, the rule assumes that we wear 20% of our wardrobe 80% of the time,  listen to 20% of our i-pods 80% of the time, get 80% of enjoyment from 20% of our friends, focus 80% of our time on 20% of our problems, and [...]

Clare Staples: No More Doggie Downer

I’ve been on a doggie downer lately. I had a bit of bad luck and it spiralled into self pity and wallowing and I was focusing only on what wasn’t going right.
Now I’m following my own advice, which I love to dispense but forget to follow. This week I’m starting afresh and focusing on the good, [...]

Clare Staples: Love Is Everything

Despite her recent upset, Clare is a big believer in love. It heals everything!
She has been saying I love you to everyone lately. I counted nine times in one day and it made my tail wag so hard when the same reply came back - I love you too. Love is the focus and the solution.
To solve any problem, ask yourself three questions:
What can [...]

Clare Staples: How To Get Over A Break Up

Clare, Al, Bentley and I drove to Big Bear and hiked the Cougar Crest Trail today. 
As we drove up the Rim of the World Highway (yes it’s really called that!) it got so cloudy we couldn’t see two feet in front of us, but Al insisted that if we kept going we would eventually break through the cloud [...]

Clare Staples: When One Door Closes

Clare lives by the saying when God closes one door he opens another. People often get sad standing in the hallway waiting, but that’s the best bit.
The excitement of knowing a new chapter is about to begin but you have no idea what direction it’s going to take you in, and it’s always better than the last.
Clare enjoys [...]

Clare Staples: Future Life Progression

About five years ago Clare went to see the amazing Psychic Anne Jirsh, who Paul McKenna swears by.
Anne does a scarily accurate process called a future life progression. She put Clare into a state of relaxation, similar to hypnosis, told her it was 5 years in the future and asked her to describe what she could see.
Clare said [...]

Born Lucky? Celebrities Share Their Secrets Of Success

Country superstar Martina McBride, multimillionaire entrepreneur Chris Gardner, comedienne Whoopi Goldberg, NBA superstar Dikembe Mutombo, and world-renowned flutist Sir James Galway shared their secrets of success with Fox News.
And the secret has nothing to do with being born lucky. They all believe that success has nothing to do with luck, and that everyone has the power [...]

How Oprah Became A Star

Oprah told Larry King that she prayed on a daily basis about starring in the movie The Color Purple because she knew it was her destiny. Days later she got a call from Steven Spielberg. 
The experience reaffirmed her belief that thoughts create our reality. With positive thoughts and prayers anything can be accomplished.
Ever heard the saying it’s darkest before dawn? When we let [...]

Clare Staples: We’ll Be At The American Idol Final Tonight!

We are in such a good mood today. We had some great news and it made us so happy. It’s the best feeling in the world when you’ve worked so hard to make something happen and it finally pays off. It makes all the blood, sweat and tears  worthwhile.
The most amazing thing is when something [...]

Clare Staples: Perfectionism Leads To Paralysis

It’s been a good week. Alex was back for the weekend and we had a brilliant time. It’s fantastic to have him in the house. He’s such a positive, enthusiastic, inspiring and encouraging guy.
The boys finished a project they’ve been working on and we were thrilled to complete it. What started as a small idea was developed, written and finished. It felt great [...]

How To Be Unique

I don’t know where you live, UK, New York, Los Angeles, Hong Kong or some remote town on a remote island, but I do know that whatever your age, size or lifestyle, you can stand out from the crowd, turn heads and win admirers. Anyone can do it, regardless of where they’re from and where [...]

10 Ways To Feel Great

Open the windows in your office or house, even when it’s cold outside. A 10 minute blast of fresh air will lift your mood.
Connect with at least one person a day. By phone or in person, not email. Human contact is the best booster.
Get back to nature. Walk in the park. Plant some flowers in [...]

How To Live A Happy And Productive Life

Know exactly what it is that you want
Decide what happiness means to you. Search for what you want out of life and what you enjoy doing and having. Whatever you’re seeking, you will find it within. Information from books, other people’s opinions and ideas are stimulus to trigger your thought process. The answers are inside [...]

How To Increase Your Chance Of Success

The minute you wake up, you can decide to stay the same or become and have more. Your chance of success depends on you.
People around you can help or bring you down but the real work starts with you. You are in charge and you can increase your chances to enjoy a more successful life.
Gather knowledge and [...]

Living In The UK? Time To Pack Your Bags!

Clare Staples: When The Horse Is Dead Dismount

It’s been an up and down few days, with as many annoying and negative incidents as there have been positive and uplifting ones.
The key is to forget about the bad things and remember the good times. Life instantly feels better when you do that. It’s one of the keys to happiness and a loving life.
You love life if you focus [...]

Clare Staples: Life Is Short, Make It Beautiful

Clare had a nasty shock recently. We had dinner at Ceconni’s and were driving home when she pulled out of the driveway on to Robertson, braked to see if it was clear and shot forward into traffic. Somehow her heel got caught on the accelerator and despite braking we kept moving forward.
There was a gap between two [...]

Clare Staples: Success Is The Best Revenge

We get a lot of emails from people wanting to know what to do if somebody is mean to them, how to feel better about it, and how to get revenge.
I don’t know if my response is right but I’ll tell you what I do when people are mean. Nothing at all! I shrug it off, move on, [...]